If you want to have lasting change in your life, you need to refocus your mind.

Specifically, you need to change your thought patterns away from what you don’t want to focus on and toward what you do want to focus on. Because whatever you focus on is what you move toward. 

Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2 NIV). This is the blueprint you need in order to change your thought patterns: 

• “Do not conform” – How often do you let other people shape your life? God doesn’t want you to be like someone else; he wants you to be the person he made you to be. So don’t copy others, don’t conform, and don’t try to be like anyone else.

• “The pattern of this world” – Pattern means the model of everything you’ve learned in life. If you want to change, you have to replace the blueprint you learned in your life. You need to swap out the old, unhealthy pattern with a new one modeled after the life of Christ.

• “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind” – Transformed is the same word used for metamorphosis, the process a caterpillar goes through to become a butterfly. In the same way, God wants to transform you into a completely new person by renewing your mind. 

How does this happen? The Bible tells you in Ephesians 4:22-24 “to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness” (NIV).

This means you are going to have to do some putting off and some putting on—and the putting off has to happen before the putting on. It’s just like trying on clothes in a store. Before you can try on the new stuff, you need to take the old stuff off.

Start today by asking God to help you begin to let go of the old attitudes and thought patterns you’ve been living with. Then get ready to put on the new garments God has for you.